How To Have Inner Confidence: A Gentleman's Guide To Humility
As gentlemen that are not afraid to stand out from the crowd, we often get asked where we get our inner confidence from to wear what we want, when we want. The answer is simple. We have worked on developing our inner confidence. Here are our top tips for gentlemen that want to develop their inner confidence. Do not let self doubt hold you back any more.
Be positive
Practicing your positive outlook reinforces your sense of personal power. You are powerful and can create change in your world. Unfortunately being positive is looked upon as a naive trait, but it is not— it’s a sign of strength. Practice it in your self-talk, the way you share with others, your assumptions about the future, and by graciously accepting compliments.
Do not compare yourself
Comparing yourself can lead to envy and knock your inner confidence. Whether it is looks, money or relationships: there will always be someone who seems to be doing better than you. By comparing yourself you will just feel worse about your own life and resentful towards that person. Think about inspiration rather than comparison. By being inspired your mind set will change into "if they can do it, so can I!"
Concentrate on the good
You are blessed with strengths. When explored and nurtured, they can be used to achieve inner confidence and activate your Amazing. Expression of our strengths makes us feel like our real selves. It invigorates us! It excites us! It makes us crave more ways to use those strengths!
Be more decisive
How often do you answer questions with “I don’t care” or “You decide” or “Whatever you think”? If you find yourself continually passing the ownership on decisions, you are telling your inner self that YOU don’t matter. You are sending a signal that your opinions or preferences don’t need to be stated.
Get rid of doubts
Face your fear and trust the choices that you make . Doubt will only ever hold you back from making choices that will change your life for the better. The more you go outside you comfort zone, the better. Every experience will help you build on your inner confidence even this article on how to flirt like a gentleman.
Ignore the haters!
The more successful or outlandish you become, the more bitchiness you will attract. No matter what you do, you cannot please all of the people all of the time. So stop trying! The most important thing to do is keep yourself happy, not a bunch of strangers or people who are not your real friends.